Thursday, July 14, 2011

Choices...

Sometimes you just sit back and recap your life...
The people that you met, the choices that you made, the things you held on to, and the things you let go of...
Sometimes an innocent exchange of smiles at a coffee shop can turn into a friendship so dear...
On the other hand, a friendship so old can fall apart over a silly fight...
I have held on to relationships that were irrelevant... held on to beliefs that were obsolete...
I have let go of people i needed the most in life, people who deserved a second chance...
In life, you sometimes make choices that work for you... while some choices you regret (and even for the longest of time)...
I sometimes feel, there is a force above us... a force that wants us to make these choices---right or wrong, in order to differentiate the good from the bad...
Imagine a world where everyone made the right choices. So every person would be right and therefore every choice they made would be right...
Sounds ideal, doesn't it? When everyone is right, then everything is good...
And if everything is good, you don't know how bad feels?
I let go of an old friendship for stupid reasons... i did a bad thing...
Today when i look back, i feel miserable. But at the same time i think to myself, had i not acted silly that one time, how would i have ever appreciated my friendships now and valued them more?
I say, it's OK to make choices... go out there and take a risk...
No one guarantees you will make the right choice but at least you'll learn to appreciate and value the good more after running into the arms of bad a few times. 

2 comments:

  1. you may say in a line,
    i may sing in verse.
    Its just juggling relations
    to be precise and to be terse.

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  2. :o clap clap Luthles!! I have raised you well.

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